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Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Cupid's advice to Christian women about how to avoid abusive relationship (Three)


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Cupid's Advice Number 3

As a Christian, since your childhood you have been taught that once you get marry, you should marry for life, regardless of circumstances. Due to a great deal of passages within the bible that is anti-divorce. 

Some of these bible passages include


Corinthians 7:10-11 
To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.


Romans 7:2 
For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage.

Well, firstly, the teaching of the bible is wrong. There is nothing wrong about divorces. Also, there is nothing wrong about adultery, as long as its consensual (unless you are cheating on your partner. But it is alright for you to cheat on your partner if e.g. your partner is abusive and it is alright to cheat on your boy friend if e.g. he is married)

Like everybody I know sometime it is hard to let go, of a love and especially children, there is nothing harder for them, then to see their parents divorce. But either way, there is nothing wrong about divorces and sometime, it might be the best course of action, maybe not just for you, but also for your partner and your children. 

When it is the wrong person, 
1. An early break up is better then a late breakup
2. An early divorce is better then a late divorce
3. A break up is better then a divorce
4. Break up/Divorce before having kids, is better then break up/divorce after having kids

In addition Cupid love the following YouTube video made by a Buddhist monk about marriage. It contradict the bible completely, but it presented a much healthier attitude, then that of the bible and Cupid would recommend you use the teaching of this video to substitute the teaching of the bible, in regards to marriage.

Because the video is in Chinese, Cupid will translate it into English and show the video below the translation

Marriage destiny is already decided by karma

Why people in the ancient days, can easier keep their marriage vows? It is because they believe their destiny as husband and wife is determined by Karma,

Life is like a train, driving towards your grave. 

While riding along this train, you would meet lots of train stops.

Nobody is meant to be on this train with you, for your entire journey. whether it is your family, friends or lover.

You will see people come and go, getting on and off this train. 

If you are lucky somebody will accompany for a period of the journey, but when he/she is going to get off the train, even if it is hard to let go, you should still be grateful, then wave and say goodbye, because in the next stop there will be somebody else that will accompany you to go further....

1. The taste of coffee is not about how you stir it, but whether you put in sugar. A painful pass, is not about how to forget it, but whether you got the courage to start again. 

2. Somebody who chase after two bunnies in the same time, ended up not catching either.  Don't be greedy and try have it all, don't try to know everything, don't try to be superman, focus on what you do best and do it.

3. Everybody is a bitten apple, all got imperfection. Some people got bigger imperfection, because heaven love him/her more. 

4. The same bottle water, cost $3.00 at 7/11, but cost $30.00 in a five star restaurant.  A lot of times, the value of a person is determined by the position

5. A relationship between 2 people are like a sweater. when you are making it, you need to put it together one stich at a time, you need to be careful and it take time. But when you are destroying it, you only need to pull it sofetly. 

6. Marriage isn't 1+1 =2, but it is 0.5+0.5=1, both people take away part of their imperfection and then add together to form a perfect union. 

7. There are four questions in life: School, Career, Marriage and Family. What qualify as a passing grade, is whether the average score is a pass. Don't spend too much energy on a single question. 

8. A lifetime, can be consider as both long and short. charish those who are by your side, once they pass you by, they pass you by. Charish those who are currently by yourside



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